I Need These Things From My Partner

                            

Sometime's people can understandably just be selfish, sassy, moody people. I can easily fit all of those three descriptions in an hour if I ever felt ever inclined. Well when thinking about who I will be in a long term relationship with, it gets me to think, "I need some things out of this person." I am not saying that I need to have material things or to be taken out all of the time (even though every girl loves to be pampered!). I am saying that depending on the person, they need certain help just to get through life! I realize that I can't always have what I want, but could you give these to me? My Partner, just these for me?

I need to be Touched

Sometimes all someone needs is a hug. I want someone to literally hold me together when I can't. Nothing can feel better than letting someone know that you are there for them, and the easiest way to do that is with a hug.

I need my pace

I believe that being with each other is very important, but being able to be alone is just as important. Just having time to myself helps me be able to recheck myself and organize my thoughts. Girls like to be alone where they can pain their toes and watch cheesy reality TV shows. Having your alone time will help me clear my mind every once in a while, and my partner needs to know that I do need it.

I need him to have an opinion

Men...let's just face it, women love to talk. Well I need you to talk back! I want to hear how you feel and be able to go on with my conversation. I want you to not just agree with me if you don't, but understand where I coming from and keep an open mind. Even if we end up getting into a passionate debate, it's better than just staring the wall.

I need you to push forward

I love progress. I have always set goals and work achieve them. I want a partner that also works to achieve their goals too. It doesn't even matter how you want to progress in your life, but just don't give up. This will push both of us into a better future.

I need you to know I screw up...a lot!

I will pick fights, say the wrong things, have my breakdowns, and mostly I will be completely...human. I know I have OCD and don't know how to handle some situations, but I promise I will always work on them to be better. I need a partner who will be able to tell me, "it's OK" every time I screw up. I need someone who will support my decisions and be there when those decisions don't turn out as planned.